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Life Force: 5 Week Men's Container (Online & In-Person)


Life force is what animates us. It’s the same current moving through the entire living world, expressing in our lives as energy, spontaneity, sexuality, creativity, presence, direction, and devotion.

For many men, that current isn’t steady—it’s scattered.

It gets pulled into endless input, into habits that numb rather than nourish, into cycles of shame and overconsumption. Not because men are broken, but because most of us have simply never been taught how to train, protect, or direct our vital energies. So they run unchecked. You can see the impact of that everywhere—in our bodies, our relationships, and the wider world.

How many men do you know, playing out patterns of compulsive sexual behavior? Depressed? Disempowered? Unsatisfied? Undependable? Unable to show up fully? Probably more than a few.

If you are like many men, no one showed you exactly how to work with this power. So it gets spent unconsciously—on habit, on distraction, or in subtle and not-so-subtle forms of control and competition.

This container is about reversing that.

When life force is gathered and consciously directed, it becomes a source of stability and power. Energy becomes more consistent. Sexuality becomes something that can be worked with, rather than something that works against us. Presence deepens. Clarity sharpens. There is a greater capacity to show up with integrity.

This is a space to learn that directly—not conceptually, but in the body, psyche, and spirit. To identify the leaks, harness this energy, and use it to open beyond ourselves, so we can move through the world as conscious vessels of truth and love.

What We’re Cultivating

A different relationship to your energy, your body, and your life.

  • A sacred relationship with your sexual energy that fuels and heals rather than drains

  • A regulated, responsive nervous system to support you through these times

  • Authentic relationship with inner guidance and the natural, animate forces of earth.

  • Clarity of direction and purpose in this world

  • Strength, Emotional depth, and Sensitivity without collapse

  • Brotherhood rooted in honesty and growth

This isn’t about becoming “better” It’s about becoming more available, more directed, and more aligned in how you actually live—as an ally, partner, father, brother, and leader.

Modalities & Medicines

This work is direct and embodied. It centers on a core set of practices:

  • Sexual energy cultivation

  • Breathwork and nervous system regulation

  • Initiatory process facilitated and guided by the Mystery within you

  • Sacred, earth-based medicines and allies (tobacco and Kambo)

These are experiential, ancient technologies that work on the level of the body, the nervous system, and the deeper layers of the psyche/spirit

Structure

This is a 5-week hybrid container:

  • Weekly online sessions for teaching, practice, and group process

  • Every-other-day shared morning practice to build rhythm and discipline

  • (Optional) Three full-day, in-person intensives for deeper work, initiation, and connection

There is a clear arc to this work. It builds, it challenges, and it asks something of you. Some of these practices will be serious commitments that are not for everyone, but can radically change your life.

We’re living in a time of instability and reorganization.

Old models of masculinity are collapsing, and nothing stable has replaced them. The result is confusion, disconnection, and misdirected energy.

This work is about becoming a man who can calmly hold and direct charge in the middle of that—grounded, clear, and in service.

What You Will Leave With

  • Powerful practices you can continue to cultivate and lean on

  • Multiple, living sources of guidance within you and the natural world

  • Heightened energy and understanding of how to channel it with awareness

  • Fuller presence and embodiment in your relationships

  • A deep cleanse and reset to help you take your next step with clarity

  • A community of men you can stay connected with through a shared channel

And over time, this will ripple outward—into how you love, how you lead, and how you move through the world. Your partners, your families, and your communities will thank you.

If this calls you, we would be honored to welcome you into the circle.

Schedule

Pacific Standard Time (PST)

Week 1
Weds, April 15 — Evening circle (online) 5:30pm-7:30pm
Thurs, April 16 — Morning practice (online) 6am-7am
Sun, April 19 — Daylong intensive (in person) 9am-2pm

Week 2
Mon, April 20 — Morning practice (online) 6am-7am
Weds, April 22 — Evening circle (online) 5:30pm-7:30pm
Fri, April 24 — Morning practice (online) 6:00am-7:00am
Sun, April 26 — Office hour/check in (online) 3pm-4pm

Week 3
Mon, April 27 — Morning practice (online) 6am-7am
Weds, April 29 — Evening circle (online) 5:30pm-7:30pm
Fri, May 1 — Morning practice (online) 6am-7am
Sat, May 2 — In-person intensive (in person) 9am-2pm

Week 4
Mon, May 4 — Morning practice (online) 6am-7am
Weds, May 6 — Evening circle (online) 5:30pm-7:30pm
Fri, May 8 — Morning practice (online) 6am-7am

Week 5
Mon, May 11 — Morning practice (online) 6am-7am
Weds, May 13 — Evening circle (online) 5:30pm-7:30pm
Sun, May 17 — Final in-person intensive (in person) TTBD

Niko Whitefeather is a psychospiritual ally and ceremonialist focused on the energy body and the reclamation of the mystical experience. His work draws from years of apprenticeship in earth-based traditions, transpersonal psychology, and a heart-centered, non-dogmatic approach.

With a deep trust in nature and the inner healing intelligence, he supports people through transformative states with clarity and steadiness—while pointing them back toward the guidance and light already inherent within them.

In men’s work, his areas of focus include sacred sexuality and energy cultivation, transforming addiction, and helping individuals uncover and refine their unique medicine—often hidden within their most challenging and painful experiences.

Hart Dasteel is a trauma-informed somatic practitioner trained in bodywork, craniosacral therapy, breathwork, IFS, and EFT, and holds a degree in Transpersonal Psychology. His work blends subtle body techniques, nervous system regulation, and inner parts work to support deep emotional and energetic release.

At his core, Hart is devoted to helping people return to their bodies and reconnect with their innate capacity to heal. He is the founder of Feral Fathers and Alchemy of Brotherhood, and is passionate about equipping men with the tools needed to live grounded, regulated, and deeply engaged lives.

To learn more about Hart, read his full bio here.

Energy Exchange

We offer a sliding scale to meet you where you are, while sustaining the work and making it accessible.

Tier 0 — Scholarship / Work Trade (Limited Spots)
For those who feel genuinely called to this work but whose current financial reality makes payment inaccessible.

If contributing financially would undermine your ability to meet basic needs—such as housing, food, or essential care—please reach out. We can explore whether a work trade or scholarship is a viable option.

Tier 1 — $500 (In-Person) / $100 (Online only)
This tier is for those who can meet their basic needs, but need to be thoughtful with spending.

Choosing this may mean weighing it against other discretionary expenses and being intentional with your resources.

Tier 2 — $700 (In-Person) / $300 (Online only)
This tier is for those who are financially stable and able to invest in this work without significant strain.

You can afford this without it impacting your ability to meet your needs or limiting your day-to-day life in a meaningful way.

This tier reflects the true cost of the container and supports the sustainability of UNIUN.

Tier 3 — $900 (In-Person) / $500 (Online only)
For those who have financial flexibility and feel resourced to give more.

You can contribute at this level with ease and generosity. Your support helps make this work accessible to others while strengthening the foundation of the offering.

Choose the tier that feels honest and aligned with your current reality.

Registration

If you feel called to join us, please begin by filling out the intake form and scheduling a consultation.

If you have questions or simply want to connect first, you’re welcome to schedule a consultation before submitting the intake form.

Intake Form

30-Minute Consultation

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